G'day, you've run into my rather alternative BDsM blog, here's the place I like to reblog things that turn me on, things that my submissive SmallOne have made (also turn me on) and the occasional funny picture that makes its way into my feed.
Me and my SmallOne are new to the kink life so we're learning what we can as we go, if you want to ask a question yourself, feel free, if you want to pass on wisdom, feel free.
But otherwise, have a good time and I'll do my best to entertain you all!
And since it needs to be said, this is a 18+ Not Safe For Work blog, and pictures on this blog are not of my creation unless tagged 'me'.
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
At the moment I’m just going by Sir, this may change due to my and SmallOnes kink/relationship changing to more a Big/little state.
Since I don’t use a title much I don’t mind others use of them, but I think people should earn their titles (eg. Mistress’/Masters should actually show proficiency and care in what they do).
Since me and SmallOne don’t do public play as of yet I’m generally stark naked, but when going to events I try do dress in smart black buttoned shirt and pants since I can’t afford kink clothes yet.
That will be fixed soon hopefully :)
As for what the attire means to me; I’m not worried about clothing, it’s mostly an aesthetic pleasure.
Not really, as my interests are generally gaming/pc related, which would be hard to incorporate into play.
Haven’t tried it, probably won’t. I prefer only playing with people in real life, but each to their own, if you like it do it!
If people ask me about my kinks I will answer them honestly, but I don’t generally bring up kink-related topics with people I presume as vanilla unless they have already initiated it.
Well, depends, guy or girl?
As I’m with a girl at the moment I’ll say my most recent likes.
I used to look for tall girls, generally olive skinned (Italian background or such), a good humour, quirkiness, intelligence and a little bit of craziness :3
But since SmallOne I’m definitely opening up to the small innocent girls, and anyone who can pull off neko!
As it is, intelligence and good humour are still the winners, I’m lucky to have scored both as well as cuteness with her, my little schoolgirl :P (Creeeeeepppyyy)
30 Days of Kink - Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
When I started kink I was worried I would get, or be seen to be abusive.
Now that I’ve had time I’ve gotten past that worry with my loving submissive and great friends who share my interests. I personally view it as a way to share a different connection than what’s possible with vanilla couples, but that’s just me.
I definitely enjoy the kink more, and I’m also getting to expand my pleasures, for example I plan to continue some hot wax fun and light Knife Play with SmallOne this coming week!
So overall I’d say I’m warming up to it very quickly, vanilla sex is seeming duller every day, but I’d partake in it to share the simple connection without powerplay.